Personal stories culled from memories. From childhood to adulthood. From living in the Philippines to settling in Canada.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Cool Christmas
ABOVE RIGHT, The famous Tagaytay attraction, Taal Volcano.
We wanted a cool Christmas, so we hied to Tagaytay for the Christmas holidays.
We drove early Saturday morning of December 24th, after attending the last segment of the "simbang gabi".
SLEX was heavenly - no traffic, but the best part was that the Sta. Rosa exit, which had been previously covered in the news as clogged with holiday travellers, was deserted.
It took us just an hour to reach Tagaytay. Right away, we felt spring-like weather, hovering between 14 - 16 degree celsius.
First item of the day upon reaching Tagaytay was breakfast at Antonio's. The famous restaurant was about two kilometres from the Aguinaldo Highway, and one has to drive down a narrow, sloping one-way lane.
But upon reaching Antonio's, we forgot about the strenuous drive, because the place boasted of lush garden amidst a sprawling property. We were led to the breakfast area - a huge house decorated with antique tables and furniture.
ABOVE, Antiquity displayed at the Main House in Antonio's Bed and Breakfast.
We chose to dine al fresco. The breakfast selection
was wide, and the prices were quite steep, but there was bottomless coffee, so I was quite happy with my pancakes and bacon.
After breakfast, we toured the place. In the main house, there was a display of photographs of the families of the owners - the Escalantes of Bacolod.
BELOW, a lone canary inside a souvenir shop at Sonya's Garden. Opposite, found at Bag of Beans, love birds and budgies.
Next stop was Sonya's Garden, which was even further from Tagaytay proper.
Here, our sights were treated to more greenery - plants and flowers and a beautiful trail, with a convenience store selling herbal and other health products. In the inner sanctum was a bakeshop, where we bought raisin bread and other pastries.
Although I've gone to Tagaytay several times in the past, it was my first time to visit the Caleruega Church. We heard the midnight mass at the renowned Our Lady of Lourdes where they had a "salubong."
We tried the famous Tagaytay Bulalo for Christmas dinner, and for Christmas breakfast, it was at Bag of Beans breakfast buffet.
ABOVE, a delectable selection of sweets at Bag of Beans, part of its breakfast buffet, which cost 399 pesos per person.
Pre-lunch was at Mushroom Burgers and lunch at Leslie's, where apart from its delectable food, was a breath taking view of Lake Taal.
We then headed to the Pink Sisters' Chapel and the last stop was the Good Shepherd's Convent to buy goodies - ube halaya, macapuno/nata and pulvoron.
I must say the macapuno was super delicious - the coconut was chunky and right to the bite, and the syrup was not sweet at all, and thick, it almost clung to the macapuno. A bottle of macapuno was 160 pesos.
ABOVE, Interior of Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Church.
On 29th December, we went to a dinner cruise offered by the Sun Cruises Tours.
Actually, I preferred the cruise run by Prestige, but upon reaching the MOWA complex, we were told by security it had been scrapped a long time ago.
So, we drove to the Cultural Centre Complex and got barely in time for the six o'clock departure; the exact location of the docking area was behind the Folk Arts, beside the Jumbo Palace.
We went to the dinner/cruise not for the food, but for the experience of seeing Manila Bay up close.
The ship was called MV Spirit of Manila with lower and upper decks, where passengers partake of a set course dinner with entertainment. It cost 550 pesos per passenger for the dinner and cruise.
The night proved pleasant. The weather was cool and breezy, and Manila Bay was quite handsome that evening.
As the boat sailed, I remembered the times when my father used to drive us Sunday mornings to Luneta at Dewey Boulevard, and took us to a boat ride of Manila Bay.
After the cruise, we headed to some club dancing.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Where to Merry?
In the olden days, our family used to trek to our home province of Nueva Ecija to celebrate Christmas day. Then everyone grew up - some got married, others left for abroad and so the celebrations changed venues overtime.
But the New year tradition of gift giving (Kris Kringle) survived.
Where to make merry this holiday? I'm in town so it'll be in town.
In our clan, Christmas Day celebration is limited to one's inner family, but New Year's Day is spent with the entire tribe - siblings, cousins, children, nephews and nieces, in laws, grandchildren and house crew.
Choosing the venue for a New Year's get together depends on whim. Last year, we were at Fontana's in Clark. Picking the host or spot depends on size of the house - there should be enough space for kids to run around and activities to be held (eating, playing and gift giving).
Hosting a New Year's day party, or any family party, for that matter, is tedious and tiresome.
One's got to clean the house, prepare the china and cutlery, think of entertainment, and bring out tables and chairs, enough electric fan, and make sure every one's comfortable.
Few weeks ago, we hosted the twin birthday celebration of a nephew's son and my mother's, so we're exempted from the New Year's party this year. Good thing is, whenever there's a family get together, it is either pot luck, or there's pooled money or someone would sponsor the event.
So, have yourself a Merry little Christmas NOW! Stay safe.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Philippines' Boracay! Better than Hawaii?
Boracay, the number 2 tourist destination in Asia, second only to Bali in Indonesia, is one of several islands comprising the province of Aklan in the Visayas.
Was it breathtaking? Yes! Was it idyllic? Yes!
According to Toots and Cesar, who were with us visiting from Arizona, Boracay is better than Hawaii.
Where we stayed, at Station 2, the beach had the
finest white sand your bare feet could stand on. The shoreline of Boracay is long and pristine. The waters are of an
amazing aqua blue. And the sun was friendly when we were there.
We stayed at La Soleil, a Mediterrenean-inspired hotel, fronting the beach. Buffet breakfast was included in our package, but we opted out of dinner because we wanted to savour the different cuisines along the resort. There were Filipino buffets heavy on grilled seafood, Mongolian, Chinese, Japanese, Greek, Italian and Korean food everywhere.
Fresh fruit shakes, buko juice, and wines of varying vintages, and of course, beer were sold and consumed along the many restaurants and bars dotting the beaches. Cocomangas, an institution in Boracay is still in operation, so is Charly's and the always full Nigi Nigi which is patronized mainly by international tourists.
The frontage of Boracay Regency at night was full of locals who were trying to catch the live performances of a nightly band. We saw fire dancing and by the waters, there was a group lighting lanterns and letting the night air carry the contraptions. It was lovely!
RIGHT ABOVE, Crystal Cove, one of the islands featured in an island hopping package.
There was a quarter moon hovering when we were there.
Booking a vacation to Boracay seemed difficult at the start. While still in Canada, a sister queried if we'd like to join them for a vacation. She arranged everything and quoted me a price, which to me seemed steeped. Then much later, she told me it was sold out and I should book it myself.
When we finally decided to tag along to Boracay, I turned to the Internet searching for good deals and packages. WOW Philippines proved to be a dud; it had an enticing internet ad but when I called its sales office whom I specifically asked for a particular hotel, (La Carmela), I was made to wait for one full day, (with emails back and forth; calls mainly initiated by me) and at the end of the day, being told that my booking was for another hotel.
Of course I abandoned this lousy travel agency, and searched other package providers. Then I decided to book the airlines first and then the hotel afterwards. Booking the flight was another story.
ABOVE, hats - everywhere you go.
There were tons of internet sites which would tell you of airline sales, but I decided to book directly and on-line with airphil express. Its sales office (via telephone) would charge a higher fee. It's better to do it on line.
Next comes the hotel. Whenever I found a hotel, I checked the customer reviews. For instance, I found out that several hotels which carry the names of franchise-hotels had no connection whatsoever with the international chains, such as the Boracay Peninsula.
I decided to book La Soleil because that's where my other companions were staying. My sister's agent told her it was sold out. Through tedious searching, I found a travel agency which had La Soleil rooms available at much lower prices, even lower than the Hotel's own website prices. The agency is called asia travel.
But the cautious, cynical soul in me started to work, especially after I saw news about a local travel agency
which duped several vacationers out of amazing Palawan vacation packages which proved to be fake.
I started to call airphil and La Soleil (checked whether asia travel was legit).
Finally there was the thing about transportation transfer, from Caticlan to the hotel and back. Searching again, I found there were providers like Southwest, which charge about 800 - 900 pesos per passenger, and take you through all the transfers, from airport to Jetty Port to your hotel, which includes baggage handling. And there were tons of blogs telling about independent transport transfers which would cost much less.
On the whole, the flight was okay with minor delay, the transfer to hotel was uneventful, the check in was quick.
RIGHT ABOVE, Cocomangas, an institution in Boracay. It's featured in the Magic Sing karaoke.
On our second day, we took the island hopping package which included the 16-foot deep immersion to see underwater creatures, the brief snorkeling experience and the trip to the Crystal Cove which was magnificent.
Any vacation would not be complete without dancing, so we tried the La Soleil Disco, but soon found out the younger crowd were content drinking their beer and wine, listening to music and talking/texting. But these did not prevent us from taking the dance floor no matter how briefly it was.
At the end, everyone had a tan - the youth among our group, and the more matured folks - all the same flavours and hues of the Boracay sun.
Right, Pearls of Boracay. Peddlers of pearls will tell you they're licensed.
RIGHT, a hardworking Pinoy selling ice cream and popsicles, in the middle of the sea.
ABOVE, the clear, green and blue waters of Boracay display this school of small fish.
Monday, November 14, 2011
Mayweather, Pacman and the Losers.
Floyd Mayweather punched Ortiz while the referee was motioning to the timekeeper, not once but twice, and was declared winner. Manny Pacquiao outpointed Marquez and was declared winner in last Saturday's welterweight championship fight.
Some American boxing aficionados groaned, but accepted the decision in the Mayweather case. In Pacquiao's case, some boxing aficionados grunted and SHOULD ACCEPT the Pacquiao win.
I wouldn't be surprised if Mexicans would boo Pacquiao and say Marquez was robbed the game. Of course, they would root for their countryman. But to smart aleck Pinoys who say Marquez won, I don't have patience.
Pinoys who continue to pull down their compatriots are flaunting the Pinoy crab mentality. We've seen this many times. I've seen it many times in work places and events outside the Philippines, amongst fellow Filipinos.
Unlike other cultures, we Pinoys don't support our compatriots.
I have a former officemate whom I requested to ask her editor if I could have some articles published in the community paper where she is a featured columnist. She never got back to me. Much later did I realize that the paper she writes for has the organization I last worked as a regular advertiser.
Well, I left that organization on a sour note; I was accused by the ED as having reported my manager to a big funder. That manager, who drew part of his salary from the funder was a regular no show in the office, and never supported my Unit which was a moneymaker in a non-profit. Now, I heard this manager has been re-assigned in a satellite office and no longer flaunts his "work ethic" in the central or hub location.
Anyways, this part of my life has long been forgotten if not for the just concluded Pacquiao-Marquez fight, which reminded me of the crab mentality I experienced from a fellow Pinoy office worker.
This "I'll pull you down," mentality by some Pinoys shows insecurity and envy.
Some of our fellow "kababayans," especially while working abroad, are always ready to score once they sense that a fellow Pinoy is in tight spot; instead of going to his/her aid, they make it a point to pull the individual down so they can go up and occupy the top/better spot.
Other cultures always come to the rescue of their compatriots. That's why their ethnic groups develop political clout because they are unified, they are cohesive, they support each other. Look how successful Chinese and Indian people are wherever they go. Hispanics, too.
Majority of the judges in the Pacquiao-Marquez fight gave the game to Pacquiao . These judges were in the ringside and saw and heard the punches up close.
To those Pinoys who continue to blab that Manny didn't win, just shut up your big mouths. The game was won by Manny Pacquiao. Yipee yehey.
You LOST.
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Bye My Baby Love Van
I find it hard to let go of things.
So it was especially heartbreaking to see my baby go today.
Not that I've not been separated from my car. In 2000, I left my baby Van behind when I went back to P.I. And lately, since my stay in Manila has become increasingly longer, I've left behind my reliable Plymouth again.
Me and my Plymouth had seen many roads together. Those travels all over Ontario, to Ohio, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, even to Florida Disney world one time, which saw us driving to Southern cities of Virginia, Georgia, the Carolinas.
Me and my Plymouth had experienced many cold and humid days and nights, together. Smooth and snowy rides. Hills and slopes.
The van didn't give up on me, and I didn't give up on her.
There was this time when we were driving to Steubenville from Columbus, Ohio, late one night, after a five hour plane ride from Los Angeles, and my two passengers were sleeping oh so soundly while rain was raging, and I was the only one awake, and my Plymouth kept me company with her smooth, soothing sound and glide.
It's heartbreaking to let go of a friend, my baby Van. But she will be in good hands - with my sister. I hope she keeps her tidy and clean, as I've done through the years. My Plymouth, she's stills sparkling - like a lady in her prime - despite her 12 years on the go.
I'd miss her, for sure.
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Healthy Eating, Dieting, or Plain Stupid?
I've been weeks away from home and I've been eating plain stupid. The first few days, I subsisted on bagel with oodles of cream cheese, sometimes, peanut butter with jelly. Breakfast was lunch and was dinner.
Then, friends invited me for dinner and we had a blast at a Caribbean restaurant with plates of camaron rebosado look alike and fried rice with chicken, beer and red wine. Then we headed to Tim Horton's for late coffee.
Few days after, former colleagues treated me to a Japanese lunch, and then more coffee.
Back where I'm staying, I reverted to my usual breakfast, lunch and dinner - oatmeal with lots of fruit (strawberries and banana), toast bagel with cream cheese and peanut butter with jelly. Sometimes, I'd switch to Ramen noodles, or occasional fried chicken or pork chop with fried rice.
What I haven't altered is my daily dose of caffeine.
In Ohio, my sister prepared Pinoy food for me, but I protested and told her, I'd had Pinoy food in Manila for months already. So, she served me American breakfast and dinner.
One time we were at Wendy's, Leona, my nephew's four-year old daughter told us, "stop talking like a baby." That's what she said whenever we spoke in Tagalog and she could not understand. Ha ha ha.
Then the results of my blood test came, and my doctor told me that my blood sugar, although still reasonably okay, was higher than previous tests. And there was fat in the liver. Conclusion: I'd been eating fat- rich food in Manila, not exercising, and plainly eating.
So back to my oatmeal.
Mom's second year death anniversary is tomorrow, Oct. 30th. Bless her soul.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
My Way.
At the NAIA, the clerk told me my flight was in the early morning, but my ticket showed a 12:20 pm departure. I was told to come back, that my agent should've notified me of the changes, blah, blah, blah. I insisted to take the noon flight.
After a half hour of waiting, KAL agreed to let me hop into their jumbo, checked me into Hyatt Regency and gave me free dinner and breakfast buffet. Excellent.
Now, my nose is almost un-clogged after the sudden change in temperature upon reaching the shores of Toronto.
Here now in another city called Toronto,in Ohio, I am slowly digesting news back home, some happy, one disturbingly sad.
Dual citizens have difficult lives. Being transported back and forth into different weathers, cultures, scenarios, scents and people.
Friday, September 2, 2011
The Ber's are Back.
I was shocked to see Christmas Trees on the set of a local morning news show yesterday. Then I remembered it was September 1st, and then I remembered I was in P.I., the country with the longest Christmas celebration.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Caps Ahoy !
Rain was raging as we drove last Sunday to Bulacan to visit a sick relative. The U.S. East Coast and Canada were having bad weather that day, too. So Mina and Irene unleashed their ire and destroyed both lives and property in disparate parts of the world.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Confirming Flight, Etc in a Day.
Yesterday, I confirmed my flight for a trip this coming Fall. The clerk at the airline was rude, an "I don't care attitude," which I felt even through the airwaves. I screamed at him, and that made him more amenable.
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Better than Sudoku.
Toyz was not doing crosswords although the booklets were blended with the glossy magazines. So I finished them all.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Condo craze.
"Hydrotherapy massage - is a kind of therapeutic massage that utilizes “Ultrasonic Jet System” that massages specific areas of the body with its aquatic jets strategically located to relax and soothe tired and aching muscles. This treatment is best done in heated water.
These one push-of-a-button equipments are categorized as soft, moderate and hard massages. Because of these, the customers are assured of the same consistent experience, unlike manual hand massages wherein every visit may be a different experience due to different factors. For example, a masseuse that offers hard massages may not be as strong as before because he is already tired.
Moreover, the massage systems, being “do-it-yourself” type, gives the customer the freedom to decide which water equipment to use and which part of his body needs more attention."
After partaking of complimentary hot corn soup at the Spa, we headed to Kell and Louie's condo and had dinner but ended issuing a rain check on a plan to go dancing later that evening.